Our Favourite Wedding Traditions (with Modern Twists)
Weddings are a beautiful blend of tradition and personal expression. At Fitzroy Inn, we celebrate all the ways couples choose to mark this special day—whether by embracing classic rituals or adding unique touches to create a day that’s truly their own. Here are a few of our favorite bridal traditions, with some ideas for making them meaningful to you.
Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue
Traditional: This tradition dates back to a 19th-century English rhyme and represents continuity (something old), optimism (something new), borrowed happiness (something borrowed), and purity or love (something blue).
Modern Twist: Nowadays, “something blue” could be swapped for any colour with personal significance, or replaced with an item reflecting a shared dream or value. A well-loved family book, a new piece of jewellery from a friend, or even a quirky item can fulfil these tokens in ways that resonate uniquely with each couple.
The Bridal Garter
Traditional: In classic weddings, the garter toss is a playful tradition where the groom removes and tosses it to unmarried friends, symbolizing good luck in finding love.
Modern Twist: Today’s brides may wear a garter with a charm or symbol that holds personal meaning, or forgo it altogether, choosing instead a more private exchange. Some couples include the garter as a fun nod to tradition during their portraits, while others incorporate it as a shared, quiet moment.
Bridesmaids and Groomsmen
Traditional: Historically, bridesmaids and groomsmen served as a protective presence, often matching the bride and groom to “confuse” evil spirits. Lol, look out!
Modern Twist: Wedding parties now include people of all genders, with friends and family in attire that expresses their personalities and suits their comfort. Whether it’s “bridesmen” or “groomsmaids,” a gender-neutral ensemble, or a close-knit group of friends and family, couples are choosing support teams that reflect their unique bonds.
Walking Down the Aisle
Traditional: Traditionally, brides are walked down the aisle by their fathers, symbolising a family’s blessing and support as they begin a new life chapter.
Modern Twist: In many modern ceremonies, brides are choosing to walk alone, with both parents, or even with siblings or close friends. This choice can signify independence, honor special relationships, or simply feel more authentic for the couple. Every step down the aisle becomes a reflection of love, family, and individuality.
The Engagement Ring
Traditional: A diamond engagement ring represents enduring commitment and security, a symbol that has become a classic.
Modern Twist: Couples are now choosing rings with colored stones, family heirlooms, or rings with unconventional designs. Others may even skip rings in favour of matching tattoos, a memorable experience, or a keepsake that holds personal significance. Whatever the symbol, it’s a timeless reminder of the journey they’re about to embark on together.
Kneeling to Propose
Traditional: Kneeling while proposing is a romantic gesture that dates back centuries, symbolizing honor, respect, and a heartfelt commitment. This iconic gesture is widely recognized as a deeply meaningful start to a life together.
Modern Twist: While some people still cherish the romance of this classic gesture, others feel more comfortable proposing in a way that reflects their personal style and the dynamics of their relationship. Some couples choose a more casual or creative setting, propose together, or skip the “down on one knee” entirely. However the proposal happens, it’s about creating a memory that reflects their unique love story.
Asking the Father for Permission
Traditional: In many cultures, it’s traditional for a person to ask the bride’s father for permission to marry, symbolizing respect and the blessing of the family.
Modern Twist: While some still value this gesture, it has evolved to fit more inclusive and contemporary values. Many couples now choose to involve both parents, close family, or even friends in this moment. Some opt for a heartfelt conversation with family members after the proposal to share the joy rather than seeking formal “permission” beforehand. Ultimately, it’s about honoring the love and support of those close to the couple in a way that feels respectful and meaningful to everyone involved.
Creating New Traditions?
At Fitzroy Inn, we encourage couples to embrace the traditions that feel right for them while adding elements that bring their personalities into the day. Whether it’s a letter exchange, including a beloved pet, or a unique unity ritual like blending colors on a canvas or planting a tree, these new traditions add personal significance to your celebration.
Weddings are about love, unity, and celebration—whatever that looks like for each couple. We’re here to support you in making your day at Fitzroy Inn as traditional, modern, or unique as you wish. After all, it’s your story, and it deserves to be told your way.
